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Act As If

December 9, 2008 by Cathy Stucker 2 Comments

confident.jpgIf you want your life to change, one simple thing you can do is to act as though the change has already occurred. If you want to achieve something, act as though you have already gotten your desired result. If you want to possess a certain quality, act as if you already do.

Want to be happy? Act as though you are happy.

Want recharge your marriage? Remember how you felt in the early days of your relationship, and act that way again.

Want to have a job you can love? Act as though you love your current job.

Want to be more confidant? Act as though you are confident.

Acting as if you already have what you want will change your attitude to a more positive one. It will also alter how you behave toward other people and how they react to you. You will create the habits necessary to get—and be—what you want.

Acting as if is not easy. It takes practice and reinforcement. You will need to change the negative thoughts and actions that have become habits over many years. Cut yourself some slack while you are establishing new patterns, but keep acting as if and your new attitude will become a habit.

Try it—and be amazed by the results!

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Filed Under: Life Lessons, Making Changes, Positive Thinking

Comments

  1. Rolf Smith says

    January 7, 2009 at 1:35 pm

    Great think piece! Really connects with the Me, Inc. process we’ve developed as the backbone of the School for Innovators. Wonderful addition (complement) to the idea of writing out 101 Goals & Wishes. I will forward it to all our graduates. Thank you for this one.

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  2. Norman says

    January 21, 2009 at 10:44 pm

    I just wanted to say that ,this is a very good way of changing old habits and learning a new one.
    and guess what it works too…Just stay focused and act as if until it becomes reality.It won’t work unless you work it.

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